So I was thinking about my roomie and her situation that I mentioned below. Normally my roomie, Nikki, wouldn't do something like that and I was trying to analyze why she did actually stopped so she could piss this girl off. I mean I know that girl almost hit her car but Nikki is passive aggressive not aggressive. But I guess one could argue that her just stopping is a passive aggressive action even though I do not agree, I feel that she was moderately aggressive. Anyways that is neither here nor there.
My Question: Why did she do that?
Well besides the obvious factor that the girl almost banged up her car, I felt that she did it simply because she didn't know the person. If that girl would have been me, she probably would have had the same amount of anger but simply because she knows me she would have probably just put stuff in my trash can. I know that sounds random but since we are roommates she could just "get me back," passive aggressively, at home and she knows that when people fill up my trash can with their own trash it gets on my nerves. My point however, is that she would not have acted the way she did with that girl if it were me or anyone else she knew or liked. I think this is true for most people though. I know I react differently to people I know than people I don't. Maybe it's because we know them that we base our reactions on our relationship with them and if we have no relationship with them then our reaction unfriendly, to say the least. I never really looked at it that way before.
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